For adult children of aging parents

Something's changed with your mom or dad.
Here's what to do next.

Honu creates a customized game plan tailored to your specific situation, telling you

what to do, what to say, who to call, and in what order.

A calm map for the years ahead, starting with the first step in front of you.

Founding membership is open!
Your personalized care plan, the full guide library, and everything we build next. $79 per month, locked at that rate for life. Cancel anytime, and your first month is refundable.
See what's inside

It usually starts small.

A fall that was "nothing." A forgotten word at Sunday dinner. Mail that's piling up. You notice, and a quiet question follows you home: what do we do now?

Most people face that question alone at midnight with a search bar.

Honu is the other way: one calm place that already knows the road, hands you the next step, and walks it with you at your family's pace. Not later, when things are dire. Now, when acting early is the whole advantage.

How it works

Three steps, and you're moving.

1.Tell us about your parent

Ten plain questions. Where things stand, who's nearby, what's weighing on you. About three minutes.

2.Get your plan

A personalized roadmap in the right order: what to do this week, what can wait, and how long each step takes.

3.Follow the links

Every step opens the exact tool it needs: the guide, the checklist, the script, the form. No hunting, no homework.

Inside your membership

Everything is built to be used, not just read.

Your care plan

Personal to your family, arranged in order by urgency level, and with time estimates to complete. Redo it as things change and it changes with you.

The care-type test

A ten-minute answer to the biggest question: can help come to them at home, or is it time for something more?

Five step-by-step care guides

In-home care, assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, and staying home safely. Each with the questions to ask and a printable scorecard.

The document file

Every paper you'll be asked for along this journey, who asks for it, and the beneficiary sweep that keeps your family out of probate court.

Hiring tools that do the work

A ready-made caregiver application, interview questions, and a side-by-side comparison sheet. Print and hand them out.

Ask Honu anything

Stuck on something specific to your family? Submit your question and get a considered, personal answer within a day.

In development · founding members first
The vetted network & the room

A trusted who-to-call list, checked and vouched for, and a private community of people in the same season. Founding members get both first, at no added cost.

Founding membership

Be one of the first 200 families.

$79/month

Everything above today, and everything we build next at no added cost. Your founding rate is locked for life. Cancel anytime, and if the first month isn't what your family needs, we'll refund it.

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