A care plan, the Honu way.

Two falls deserve a medical look before any family decisions. Go as the note-taker, bring the medication list, and ask: "What should we be planning for over the next year?"

A healthcare proxy and a medical records release let the doctor talk to you and let someone act if Margaret ever can't. Ten minutes of signing prevents months of being locked out.

Most falls repeat in the same spots. Rugs, cords, lighting, a grab bar where there's a step. Small fixes, big odds shift.

Not "you need a caregiver." One visible task, a few hours a week, Margaret stays the boss of it. The exact words for this talk are in the membership's conversation guide.

What accounts exist, what bills come when, where the papers live. Amounts can stay private; locations cannot. Add the durable power of attorney at the same sitting.

Facts first, then three specific asks: the bills, the weekly check-in call, the research. Distance rules out driving, not helping.

Wills, beneficiary designations, insurance papers, and the full checklist of what every agency will ask for, gathered while it's easy.

A new fall, a new diagnosis, a move: redo the ten questions and the plan reorders itself around what's true now.

Stuck on something specific to your family? Write to us and a considered, personal answer comes back within a day. Not a chatbot, not a forum thread. That's part of the membership, every month.

A new fall, a diagnosis, a move: redo the ten questions anytime and your plan rebuilds around what's true now. Caring for a parent isn't one decision; it's a season, and the membership walks the whole season with you.

In development now: a vetted who-to-call network (checked and vouched for, so you never cold-search a stranger in a crisis) and a private community of people in the same season. Founding members get both at no added cost, and the $79 rate is locked for life.